There are several companies that make software. There is Spectrafoo, Smaart, & ETF to name a few. You will need a good omni directional mic and some sort of USB preamp. I think ETF comes with a mic. The SIM 3 system that I use is $11,000 so i don't think you want to make that kind of investment.
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